Sometimes life can be hard ! Oh yes, it can really be hard …
It’s quiet easy to say that you don’t give a fuck anymore but somewhere deep inside,you’ll defneitly worry and that is natural. But ,lemme tell you something , life at high school is pretty miserable for everyone. Even that one person at school whom you think is extremely popoular and happy will obviously be between a bunch of issues of his/her own . It is a fact that no one owns a perfect life.But here we don’t realise that . And desperately wants to be their friends or hang out with them . It’s just that we aren’t sure of what we want. But before you do that just think ” Isn’t it better to stay along with people who likes you rather than the people you want to think that you are cool enough to be with them?” And also lemme tell you a fact if you are suffering from all this teenage drama, this is just for a year or two and then you are gonna leave school,move on ,go to college and then when you think about all this again you’ll realise that how dumb you were and the time you’ve wasted during the best time of your life. And by term “wasted”I mean the time that we wasted fighting ,the time we wasted trying to be popular ,the time we wasted to impress others.
Well, if you are still a teenager, just don’t kill that kid in you who just wants to hang out with their friends, eat ice creams and watch Pokemon. Cherish that 3 year old who is always happy , and be that kid who always smiles. Because at the end of the day you’ll realise that life is too short for all this drama and happiness matters the most. So this is a request to all those teenagers around , don’t let your innocence die.
And please don’t worry if you’ve lost any friend in this journey, it’s just because someone what’s you to learn that ” If they are meant to stay then they won’t ever leave you.!” And this is all a part of growing up….
I wish I could’ve met the 3 year old me a fifteen years back.
I would’ve told her ” focus on your studies or you’ll end up nowhere” or “be that girl your parents want you to be” or maybe just “enjoy your life!”
No,.. I would just tell her two simple words “You’re beautiful!” It’s not just her that I would want to tell this to ,but to all those smiling young girls who’s getting ready to face a life full of possibilities or happiness not knowing that people around you are gonna judge you on the way you look”.
So, Dear girls!,
It doesn’t matter whether you are fat,thin or skinny . It doesn’t matter whether you are fair skinned or dark or pale. It doesn’t matter whether your hair is all messed up or short or long or even curly or straight. It doesn’t matter if you wear high heels or flip flops , it doesn’t matter if you wear short skirts or tshirts .
Just love yourself!.
Accept the truth that you are beautiful .
Have the guts to make fun of yourself ,have the guts to call yourself fat or ugly . Laugh along when that so called pretty girl call you an ugly pig or even when that guy points out your pimple marks . Say that you were not born to be perfect and you are way beautiful that him! .
Never hate yourself because you are not Gigi Hadid or Kendall Jenner ,but love yourself because you are way prettier than them. It’s not beacause you are notpretty but just because they have defined being beautiful by just looking at your face and not you .
Make sure that you say this to yourself ” I am beautiful!”.
What do you mean by “behave like a good girl!?”So that when you walk across them they won’t call you a bitch
What do you mean by “do not speak”? So that when you stand up, they don’t give a fuck
What do you mean by “stay at home”or what do you mean by “you are just a girl”?
NO! You are not just a girl
You are much beyond what they think you are
You are much beyond what you think you are
You are strong enough to stand up
You are strong enough to ask
Take it as a compliment when someone calls you a bitch , because you are tough because you are real when all the others are being what they are not
Be proud when someone calls you a bad girl, but ask them how do you interpret the term “good girl”
You don’t have to bow in front of anyone , you just don’t have to be sorry anymore, but be sorry for yourself , because all this you’ve not shown the guts to speak
So, just make sure that nothing would stop you from being who you are